Archive for August, 2007

13
Aug
07

9 proven mind over matter dieting tips

A calorie is a calorie, but without a way to control your outlook and intake, you are only setting yourself up for failure. It’s a new year, and you have a resolution to knock the pounds. Utilize these 9 proven mind over matter dieting tips to get you through your new healthy life style.

1. Face it. You already know what that Snicker bar tastes like.

Look at the food; you’ve eaten it before. Do you remember how it tastes? Of course you do! Has it changed? Of course it hasn’t. Is it nutritious for your body? If not, why bother eating it again? If you have to have it, chew responsibly.

2. You can have your cake and eat it too. Just don’t over do it.

Take a bite, put down the fork, or the bag of m&m’s or whatever your weakness may be. Chew, swallow. Okay now have the flavor in your mouth and you did not go over board on your calories. So after you swallow your food, it is gone, in your stomach. If you put another bite in your mouth, you double the calories you intake. Again? It’s tripled. So in essence, calorie consumption is only about how many bites you put into your mouth. So CHILL after a few.

3. Waste is Waste.

If you are satisfied and have that “I really don’t want to waste the rest of this” attitude, think about it! If you consume the food, you will digest it and it will still end up turning into WASTE. Or you can throw it away in the waste basket (or pack it for later) where your body does not have a chance to soak up those calories. Deal? All in all, its waste, so make the right wasteful choice.

4. Are you really going to remember that donut tomorrow?

Think about the non nutritious food that you are consuming. Are you going to remember and enjoy the memory that you consumed it after you have eaten it tomorrow? Probably not. What did you eat last Monday? Don’t know? Well then… my point is made.

5. Respect thy body.

We only have 1 body so treat it with respect, give it the right nutrition, and it will treat you that way back. If you give a gasoline powered car diesel, it wont run right. So gas up with the right fuel.

6. Aroma therapy. Give smell a chance!

Instead of always receiving joy from food, enjoy the smells of nature (flowers, grass, air) or light some candles or oils. I LOVE my berry candle because it reminds me of starbursts, and my vanilla one reminds me of cake. Mentally I am satisfied. Some cannot cope with these tho, so this is not for everyone.

7. Don’t feel obligated to eat.

You don’t HAVE to eat that birthday cake, or celebration food. SO many people are wrapped up in celebration food and feel guilty if they do not eat the birthday cake. Let this go! Stand out from the crowd by putting your foot down. Bring your own healthy variations and suggest fruits and lean meats for parties you are attending. A healthy alternative for cake and ice cream is to bring sorbet instead. In this case, food is all about socializing.

8. Cope with that Binge

If you feel the want to binge, or eat a late night snack because you just WANT it, remind yourself that you can have it tomorrow. Tomorrow is ALWAYS an option. Keep it in your mind that you can fit it in the next day’s calories.

9. Calories = Your Budget

Think of your calories as a bank account. Calories are your money, so you must budget them to fit your needs. If it’s not in your budget, then don’t eat em. We all hate those over draft charges.

10
Aug
07

Obsessed with the scale

It’s honestly been tough this last week. It’s amazing how stress plays a roll in weight loss. I have been on the rocks with my fiance this past week; almost on the verge of moving out. Complicated ordeal, but we seem to be doing much better now. At least as good as we can be for what’s being delt.

Even though I have been staying on track with my diet, my body seems to hold onto my chubs regardless. I weighed myself, and I haven’t been losing much this month at all. Yay that I’m still sticking to my plan though. It’s not like I’m going to quit any time soon.

It’s amazing how you diet for so long, and kind of stop caring what the scale says. I used to be majorly obsessed with the scale. Like MAJOR. I’d have to hide it up in the closet so I wouldn’t obsess over it every day. I considered putting it in the car trunk, so I wouldn’t be tempted to step on. When you weigh every day, and you see the number go up, it ruins the whole day. If you make a weigh in day, and stick to that, most of the time there’s a loss.

I’d wake up in the morning, and run in the bathroom to soak my hair down in the sink. Why? Because I knew my weight wouldn’t be accurate on the scale if my hair was wet. I swear it’s all crazy! But now I’m alright with it. I can be scale free! At one point I considered getting another scale just so I could calculate the differences between the two. Oh how embarrassing it was to just admit that.

So I’m in a mind set where if I lose, then I lose. Good for me. But if I don’t, then that’s fine. My body is slowing down and taking things as they come. It’s come a long way. 131 pounds down.

Oh and while I’m here, has anyone checked out the new calorie count plus? It’s a dieting support group that I found a while back ago sponsored by About.com. Neat tools and AWESOME supportive community. I love it there. Here’s my link to there so if you sign up you can add me as a friend. x17star17x Calorie Count Site

03
Aug
07

Seriously Considering Future Changes

I’ve had a lot of thoughts pondering about what I am doing with myself.

I keep repeating this over and over, but I am only 23! My body is screwed, let’s face it. I’ll get photos up eventually to track my ’scars’ that I have created. Yes, it was me, I made my body into this distorted shape. Extra skin, saggy skin, that will not stick back to ME.

I am considering surgery as soon as I hit my goal weight of 139. That is only in about 25 more pounds. Such a short amount of time. I’m scared. I don’t fear the scars, I fear feeling distant from myself. Someone sewing back together my broken pieces. Cutting away my high school humiliation. Research, plenty of research, needs to go into this.

A few things I want fixed are my arms and my breasts. My arms mainly. Gosh how bad they are. Nobody believes me when I say it. I don’t wear sweaters in 120 degree weather because it’s “cute”. I don’t feel “cute” but more of a stuffy, hot, sweaty, saggy, person.

I steered away from saying “woman” because I don’t feel like one. Just a person. A mushy person. Too distorted to see my breast. I instead refer to them as utters. My stomach? Yuck, but I’m not ready to fix that yet. Why? I want to have children one day, so I don’t want to undo a flattening surgery. That can wait.

But arms and breasts. Fixing those; simply flattening them down to normal, will make me feel like more of a woman. Even with stitches and purple scars. At least my extra will be taken away.

02
Aug
07

My First Post

Hey guys. Name’s Melinda, and I am just starting out blogging. I should have started this a year ago at the beginning of my diet, but I failed to make my own personal blog.

Dieting at first was a secret. Nobody must know what I am doing! I was quite embarrassed about the whole situation. I was FAT. Morbidly obese. I was a mess. You can learn a little more about me by reading my about section. Long long journey and lot’s of stories to tell, but for now I will post this until I get more things up and running.

Here I am: 23 years old. A year into dieting. 130 pounds lost.

Starting Stats:

Start Date – July 2006

Age – 22

BMI – 50.5

Weight – 294 (294.4 if you want to be that specific)

Stretch Jean Size – 24/26W

Shirt Size – 3x

Shoe Size – 9 1/2

I never took measurements of my body during this time. There was just NO way.

Current Stats:

Age – 23

BMI – 28.7

Weight – 164 (164.4 if you want to be that specific)

Stretch Jean Size – 10W

Shirt Size – L

Shoe Size – 8 1/2 – 9

Goal Stats:

Age – 24 (December 07 – February 08)

BMI – Less than 24

Weight – 139

Stretch Jean Size – 6W

Shirt Size -M

Shoe Size – 8 1/2 – 9 (I could care less)

I have about 25 more pounds to lose to reach all this. 4 more full months until December.

Current Diet:

Protein – 20%

Fats – 20%

Carbs – 60%

Fiber – 35+ g’s

Cals – 1200